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Thoughts on childhood vaccines: featured on Phoenix, CBS 5.

click here to open post Nov 01, 2011 | posted in Baby Gavin, Personal, Sounds of Pertussis, parenting, vaccinations | 23 comments

The childhood vaccination debate is not one that I found myself anxious to join–for a zillion very obvious reasons, then ten more just for good measure. I needed time for my head to clear, for my emotions to even out and frankly, to get my facts straight before I jumped into the ring.

Now here we are (Richie and I, together), nearly 2 years later, talking from a place of confidence, understanding and compassion. There is no hate or anger behind any of our feelings as they relate to childhood vaccinations. There is no discord or frustration, only love, empathy and a desire to help others understand a perspective that often has no voice.

PS. As you read this, I’m on a plane to Hawaii. Niener, niener.

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  • Jo Thomas: Well done Nortons! A big brave step that I (and so many others) are glad you had the courage and strength to do. Attitudes won't be changed overnight but you WILL make a difference; for that we love and thank you!! Being from a sleepy little town down the bottom of Australia, it shocked me just how dismissive some people were of vaccinations (in watching the footage). I was just wondering if your medical system covers the cost of the vaccinations or if parents have to pay? Here our medical system covers the cost of the vaccinations and maternal health visits - as parents we don't pay a thing (I guess through our taxes we do!). To place our children into childcare, kindergartens and schools, it is a bit of a process for parents who have not had their children vaccinated - not overly hard but the system certainly encourages vaccinations. Prior to having children (firstborns) most parents attend antenatal classes and in these the issue of vaccinations is discussed and awareness is raised. The attitude of looking after ourself before the community is sadly something becoming more prevalent in our society. In days gone by, we didn't have the luxury of being able to support ourselves so sufficiently - we NEEDED the community. We weren't made to live alone, we were made to live and function and love as part of a community. Hopefully, with education and the gentle encouragement of people such as yourselves, people will be reminded of the necessity to keep caring for each other AS A COMMUNITY. Most people have good hearts and good intentions with what they do, sometimes it's just a little misguided; the big picture is forgotten. My son who had been fully vaccinated caught whooping cough when he was four and a half, thankfully without drastic consequences but he was a sick and fatigued boy for nearly 12 months - quite a change from the healthy, very energetic boy we had been used to. My doctor explained that, in a nutshell, with a significant number of people now neglecting to vaccinate their children the strands of illnesses that survive are becoming much stronger and new vaccines must be developed; this was always going to happen but it is occurring much more rapidly than what is acceptable. One horrid, frightful night was all we had to endure; I cannot imagine what it is like for parents like yourselves. Thank you again for standing up and speaking out with such compassion and understanding for the welfare and protection of all children, thank you so much, xoxo November 2, 2011 12:19 am
  • Jenni Bailey: Kudos to you guys for speaking up. I don't think anyone - even the most strident non-vaxxer, can argue with where you are coming from. They are incredibly fortunate to have never been in your position. For me, there has never been a question about vaccinating my girls. I totally understand the concern about the vaccines and how quickly some of them are tested and released. But the consequences of skipping them altogether are much more potentially heartbreaking. Big hugs to you both. Enjoy Hawaii. :) November 2, 2011 2:46 am
  • Melanie: I'm proud of you! There are so many naysayers and it IS trendy to not vaccinate and you catch a lot of flack for standing up for vaccinations. You are the community! My son has autism and I know it did NOT come from a vaccine and I have vaccinated all my children (2 more boys and a girl) and I have gotten my Dtap booster because I want them and all babies to be safe. Again, so proud of you for standing up for your sweet baby. November 2, 2011 3:38 am
  • maureen: Love to you and your family, Natalie. I know it couldn't have been easy for you to come out publicly and that you never intended to become a spokesperson for childhood vaccinations. Your perspective is such an important one though and I really thank you for sharing it. It's easy for people to be dismissive when they talk about their responsibility to some nameless, faceless "community" but you can't hear sweet Gavin's story and not realize that our responsibility has to extend beyond ourselves and our own family. November 2, 2011 3:39 am
  • heidi nobmann: great report from news 5--you both did great, no worries--feelings of animosity were not anywhere in the report :) the pediatrician, AD Jacobson, from phoenix was my doctor from BIRTH!! crazy small world! November 2, 2011 4:24 am
  • Shari Hanson: GO NORTONS! Wow that must have been scary...good for you guys for standing up for what you believe is right and for being able to share such a personal and tragic part of your family with the public. I have met parents like the ones interviewed and always have a hard time with not giving them a piece of my mind! You have no idea how many times I've shared your story with people -- even strangers... Gavin's life and death have impacted me SO strongly, and your willingness to share your experience and what you've learned through the process have taught me so much. XOXO enjoy HAWAII! November 2, 2011 5:33 am
  • Rachel Boatright DeVault: I have such deep respect for you for placing yourself in the line of fire to stand up for what is right! I know it's not a role you would choose, but I am moved by the humility it must take to allow yourself to be a target--so you can get the word out and be an effective catalyst for changing this rising tide of misinformation, trendiness, and fear. November 2, 2011 5:41 am
  • Lizzie: I just wish there could be more of a compromise for those (like me) who are not necessarily anti-vaccine, but who would definitely like an alternative vaccination schedule. I just don't feel comfortable injecting my infant with massive viral cocktails every few months, I'd rather wait until they're older and then ask for single-dose vaccinations, opting out of those that are rather unnecessary. Plus, there are increasing studies showing that many vaccinations are a poor substitute for natural immunity gained through contraction of a disease. I think above all, I wish that people could talk about this issue without placing blame on one side or other. Perhaps if we all put forth an effort to demand safety and accountability from pharmaceutical companies, we could all be happy. I find it hard to believe that with all their billions of dollars they couldn't come up with some safer, cleaner vaccinations. Or, maybe we are just sending kids to school to soon?! More and more preschools are filling up with two- and three-year-olds! Like I said, I don't have the answer for the world at large, I just wish people could be more civil when addressing the issue rather than making assumptions about how either side approaches the problem. It's hurtful to be pegged as "dismissive," "uneducated," "insensitive," "trendy," "wrong," "misinformed," or "fearful." I read. A lot. I study. A lot. I think, weigh, pray, talk to experts, doctors, friends, family, and pray some more. I do this . . . a lot. I thought it extremely interesting that those communities with the largest populations of unvaccinated kids in AZ, were NOT uneducated communities. That little bit of information right there ought to be a HUGE indicator that this isn't just a "trendy" movement. Smart people are educating themselves about the risks associated with vaccinations and, in many cases, deciding that they would rather not submit their child to that risk. What about their right to parental inspiration? How could anyone else demand that they know better than that parent? And what type of a frightening world would it be if others were allowed to override and contradict our own decisions regarding our children? That type of thinking chills me to the bone. No one knows my children better than the Lord, my husband, and I. So we, naturally, make up their best decision-making panel. I suppose I'll just keep praying, studying, talking, thinking, reading, and receiving inspiration for my children and simply HOPE that others can learn to respect my decisions as being the best for my children. I am, after all, their mother - which means I'm their first line of defense and their greatest advocate in this world - unlike their doctor, their government, their community, and their television news stations, who are not infallible and often have an agenda or are misinformed themselves. I feel this responsibility and don't treat this issue lightly. To the Norton's, I am deeply sorry for your loss. I pray for peace and comfort to fill your aching hearts. November 2, 2011 7:11 am
  • Kim: I love you. You are brave. I don't want to add a debate, but rather my two cents to the above comment, I agree you can be inspired as to what to do for your children, however, I believe that these vaccinations were also divinely inspired and it wasn't that far past that children were suffering needlessly from a lot of childhood illnesses where vast numbers were dying or left scarred for the rest of their lives. I think it goes into an even deeper level that we all know not to send our sick children to school and church, yet we do it anyway. When my daughter was a newborn she contracted a respiratory virus. When she was rushed to our children's hospital and I was sitting in the ER with her, doctors and nurses came to me very solemn throwing words like 'whooping cough' at me. My baby was 9 days old. Luckily for us she did not have Pertussis, but she did spend a week in the hospital with RSV. My point is, we all need to be a little more careful, a little more aware, and if we choose to hold our children off of vaccinations that is fine, but I am concerned about the children who never get them. They are divinely inspired and I stand by that. Love you Natalie. You and Richie are so brave and I love you deeply for your courage and strength. You teach me so much. Love love love love you! November 2, 2011 7:55 am
  • Jullee: Such a sad situation that not vaccinating your children has become trendy. What is this world coming to? I am absolutely pro vaccines and hope that the few will not cause irreversible harm to the masses. November 2, 2011 8:01 am
  • Lara Cheney: Natalie and Richie, I am sure that it was quite difficult to get into the childhood vaccine debate. I have heard about some people who haven't had their younger children vaccinated because of their older children having severe allergic reactions to the vaccines but I think too many people think it is ok not to vaccinate purely because they are afraid of whether it is more harmful than helpful. But, I remember being at Gavin's funeral and hugging my nearly 1 year old because life is so precious. Heavenly Father needed him home, not that it takes away the aches and pains but baby gavin is watching over and caring for you all. I remember wanting to come up to give you a big hug, but you were surrounded by your family and close friends and I wasn't wanting to intrude on that moment. I love you and hope that you are able to find more comfort and solace. Thank you for being a voice for those of us that think having our kids vaccinated is very important. November 2, 2011 8:11 am
  • Heather: I'm proud of you. I've never had super strong feelings either way but your voice absolutely needs to be heard. November 2, 2011 9:22 am
  • Jessi: Thank you thank you thank you for posting this. I'm so sorry for your loss. My sister and I are at odds over this subject. Friendly odds, but odds still. Fear is a horrible thing. November 2, 2011 10:32 am
  • Chantelle Wendt: Natalie. I have been following your blog since the day Gavin died. I have become very attached to your sweet family. I have four boys as well, and one on the way. I live in Northern California where pertusis is an epidemic, and there is one of the highest populations of unvaccinated children. I am terrified of bringing my baby home around December 3rd, knowing that there is a possibility he could get a disease that used to be non existant. It is very frusterated that when these parents who choose to not vaccinate their kids, they are taking away our choice as parents who have vaccinated to have our children exposed to the diseases we were trying to prevent. Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts with us. You are right, we are going against what is the norm right now, even some of my siblings have chosen not to vaccinate their children. I admire your families faith and commitment to making a difference as you share your tragic loss. November 2, 2011 10:58 am
  • Amanda Day: That was powerful. I personally know people who slow their schedule of their child's vaccinations; and I am okay with that- not with opting out. Good for you for continuing to be outspoken about it! Have fun in Hawaii. November 2, 2011 12:02 pm
  • Jana: Just wanted you to know that because of you and your family, I was made aware of the adult vaccination for whopping cough and my children have received the routine vaccinations, but my husband and I went and got our vaccination. Thank you for your voice and baby Gavin's voice. November 2, 2011 5:22 pm
  • Jane Johnson: Thank you for your contribution to this news story, Nortons. I loved your part so much. But, why did they have to interview the hippies about the non-vaccinations? You could tell they were the extremists on the matter, and that last sound byte was obviously horrible. The vaccine debate is SO hard, I wish more people could be what you are in it--kind, compassionate, empathetic--on both sides! November 2, 2011 8:18 pm
  • April: Thank you. Because of you, my husband, myself, and several relatives are now vaccinated. We have 4 healthy boys and a little girl in heaven. My prayers and encouragement are with you. So, you're in az? I'm in az too. welcome! i'm sure it was hard to leave the north shore. i spent some time there too. November 3, 2011 8:29 am
  • Kate: I think you did great! Vaccines are definitely a hot button topic, and they are worth more investigation on both sides, in my opinion. But I must tell you that we decided to get the dtap for our 4 month old son because of you. We have two older sons who are perfectly immunized, but one of them had a really negative reaction to a vaccine, so we were going to proceed cautiously with our third son. But between our 2nd and 3rd son, we had our first daughter who died. And while I can't completely relate with everything you've been through with your sweet baby, I do know the ache of loosing one. Raising children...heck, LIFE in general is just such a delicate balancing act between trying to do what's the most healthy and stay alive. I give you props for your courage and speaking out about something that is obviously difficult and emotional for you. -Kate November 4, 2011 9:21 pm
  • Michelle: Great job on your interview. I feel so badly about the loss of your sweet baby. So heartbreaking-I can't even imagine how that would feel. I find it really interesting that they are saying that not vaccinating children is becoming very trendy. I feel completely the opposite. I haven't vaccinated 2 of my 3 children, but it is definitely a decision that I don't take lightly. We have had so many problems with Autism with my oldest son and after doing so much research and praying, etc, etc, we didn't feel comfortable vaccinating our other two-at least not now. But, I definitely don't feel like it is a popular decision where I live in UT-to be honest, I usually try not to bring it up because of the backlash that sometimes can happen. I do wish that they would present a better vaccination schedule so that babies aren't getting so many at one time. November 5, 2011 1:53 pm
  • Mickisha: Natalie thanks for being willing to share your personal story! Its so important for everyone to understand the reality that these diseases are making a comeback. Thanks for being willing to speak up not only about adult boosters but also childhood vaccinations! November 5, 2011 5:14 pm
  • tanya smith: The video is unavailable. I'd really love to hear what you had to say. Can I view it elsewhere? January 23, 2012 7:46 pm
  • natalie: I'm not sure! I'll try contacting the network. January 23, 2012 9:53 pm

Everyday, do one thing that scares you.

click here to open post Oct 25, 2011 | posted in Baby Gavin, Sounds of Pertussis | 12 comments

Today, I did something that I’ve been really, really afraid of. I spoke to a reporter about childhood vaccinations.

For the past year and a half, I’ve been an open advocate for the importance of adult booster vaccines. I’ve been actively involved in the Sounds of Pertussis Campaign where, in conjunction with the March of Dimes, we’ve promoted the importance of the Tdap booster to create a sort of “cacoon of protection” around infants who are too young to have yet received their Pertussis vaccination.

But childhood vaccinations? This, my friends, is a whole new ballgame.

I’m afraid I’m heading blindly into a war zone. . .  like a lamb to the slaughter, you might say. Only time will tell.

Dear world, Go easy on me, K? I didn’t ask for any of this.

N

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  • Melody: I'm totally behind you. This is not something I want to argue about with people. I am pretty outspoken about the adult booster but people get crazy upset about childhood vaccinations! I don't like to tell parents what to do with their own kids but it does really suck that people can essentially make decisions about what other people's babies are exposed to by not vaccinating their own kids. That doesn't seem fair. It's a lot like how I thought it would be a good decision not to get a big dog because I don't want to deal with big poops in my yard. It's pretty lame that my neighbor got to make that decision for me by letting his big dog run free and poop in my yard. Not cool, man. Not cool. October 25, 2011 7:30 pm
  • Amanda: You are so inspiring, I wish that people could truly understand the impact of their actions and the fact that they are not only taking a chance with their child, but with someone else's child who they don't have control over :(. I am sure there will be many people who are touched and influenced by you and I hope that those who disagree will realize that you are speaking from experiences and be considerate! October 25, 2011 7:45 pm
  • Sarah in Adelaide: I think you are doing a great thing Natalie. I have always been open to individuals choosing what they deem is the best for their children, however the more I research this issue the more I am changing my mind on the issue of vaccinations. I would never want to live in a work where parents are no longer able to choose such things for their children but the alternatives are all too severe as you know all too well. I don't know what the answer is, but with vaccination rates on the decline we must speak out and if you have helped one child by doing so then the potential war is worth it. Sending strength and love. October 25, 2011 9:18 pm
  • Jo Thomas: Natalie, I believe one of the greatest evils of this world is indifference. Indifference to our fellow human companions does more damage than trying to help and getting it miserably wrong. You are NEVER indifferent; you pick something, you choose a side and you fight passionately. That takes courage because there are always going to be people who disagree with you, but even those who disagree will be inspired by your commitment to your beliefs. You are following every parents instinct - you are STANDING UP for your child; as a parent this is always our first priority. Doesn't matter what the rest of the world thinks. For the record, don't think for one second that I think you are getting it miserably wrong by advocating childhood vaccinations (I'm assuming you are for them? You've never really voiced your opinion?). It's such a sensitive issue and I know you will handle it with the understanding, encouraging nature you apply to everything. Yes, there are things that can go wrong with childhood vaccinations but it is my opinion that there are so many more things that can go wrong by NOT having them. Hold on tight girl, you are going to be in for a ride with this one but know that you'll have so many people praying for you and supporting you with our own actions and voices. Gavin deserves your voice to be heard, LOUD & CLEAR. Go Mummy! xxxx October 25, 2011 11:32 pm
  • Cindy: Since you are speaking from experience, and a horrible on at that, you obviously know what you are talking about. While others may disagree, I really hope they keep their mouths shut! :) I admire you and your strength so much. Your post about baby Gavin's 2nd Birthday had me in tears. I can't even begin to comprehend all you've been through and continue to go through. I'm simply amazed by you. Thank you for sharing your journey. October 26, 2011 7:40 am
  • niki: Vaccines save lives, plain and simple. We need more amazing women like you promoting what should have never been an issue in the first place! You have my support :) October 26, 2011 4:17 pm
  • Sara S: Good for you! I think it's so important and I applaud you for doing it. Thanks to you I've urged people for the pertussis immunizations. Thanks for all your work! October 26, 2011 4:17 pm
  • Naomi: Natalie...I don't like to count the many interviews my sweet husband and I have done on Pertussis, TDaP, and child/adult immunizations. We've done several newspaper interviews, attended several luncheons where we had to recount our story, done a PSA (public service announcement), did a radio spot, attended the state legislature to promote the proclamation on the "Cocooning Project" and spoke a million times a million times to every day people. (Our recent interview was on the front page of the Sunday Albuquerque Journal just this year.) Each and every time I've had to share my son's story, our grief, and the importance of getting your TDaP. Its NEVER! easy! Its so emotional and hard but necessary. And yes...I have gotten many positive replies of how people we know and don't know have responded to this important need and gotten their TDaP. Sadly, not enough people do it. Just this season...already!....Pertussis is on the rise in New Mexico. I'm afraid to think it has only begun but my heart's hope is that it will stop rising. But each will make his/her own decision about this. I can only share my experience, in all its real, difficult and sad details, hoping to move another to go forward and get their booster. You and I must keep on fighting until this awful disease is eradicated. For our boys. October 31, 2011 12:01 pm
  • Naomi: By the way, talking on childhood immunizations is only the next step. I will share: you will come up against those who are opposed but you keep on trudging along. For us, we didn't ask God to be spokespeople on this BUT He called us to it and has been faithful. It is not my job to convince people .... just educate them .... this comes along with sharing our loss. We have witnessed changed hearts and we have seen people remain in their ways. But we were obedient to what God asked us to do. We strongly believe He provided a way for this disease along with other diseases to be eradicated. There are no cures for Pertussis, Polio or Diphtheria. ONLY vaccines to keep them away. Educate yourself and carry a sensitive heart towards others. Most of all, TRUST God and what He has called you to do. Blessings to you. October 31, 2011 12:16 pm
  • crystal winger: you speaking out about this, may save a little baby! And people may actually listen to you because of what you have been through in real life! November 1, 2011 2:04 pm
  • Rachel Boatright DeVault: The definition of integrity is doing/saying what you believe even when it's hard. You're the embodiment of that. All my love. November 1, 2011 4:10 pm
  • Caitlin Jarvis: You have no idea who I am, but I read your blog all the time. I have been really inspired by your story. Thank you for speaking out against this insanity!!! I cannot believe that people would choose to expose their children and children/adults around them to infections that we all thought ourselves to be rid of. To be totally frank, it really angers me. I hope more people will educate themselves about this and stop following this "trend" (so well put in that video). Thank you for your strength! You are an awesome person. November 1, 2011 9:27 pm

Richie and I on KSL.

click here to open post May 08, 2011 | posted in Baby Gavin, Sounds of Pertussis | 48 comments

Video Courtesy of KSL.com

Reporter Jennifer Stagg did a fantastic job on our family’s feature that ran tonight on KSL in UT. Of all the interviews I’ve given over the last year and a half, this one was by far the most well done. (Just one quick thing, the piece mentions that we traveled with Gavin at 1 week old. He was actually 2 months old when we took that trip.) PLEASE share this video! We need to spread this important information any way we can. Here is the direct link to Gavin’s story on KSL. From there you can easily tweet, like on facebook or get the embed code to post this video to a blog or website.

Go Gavin GO!

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  • Lindy Baker: Wow. I'm bawling yet once again. This was such a great reminder to everyone who hasn't been vaccinated. Thank you for sharing your story again Natalie. May 8, 2011 7:31 pm
  • marie rose: in tears and wishing you NOTHING but the best my dear friend! May 8, 2011 7:41 pm
  • Emily Henning: Extremely emotional. Thinking of you on this Mother's Day and I know Gavin is smiling down on his mama. You are amazing and strong for sharing your story and spreading the word for this important cause. May 8, 2011 7:45 pm
  • kennan: just saw this. again, your story broke my heart. natalie, you are making this tragedy into something beautiful with your passion for pertussis awareness. i still think of you and your story often. i had my newest son 3 months ago and everyday i think of what you went through. I CANNOT IMAGINE. thank you for being you, beautiful and strong. you are inspiring. oh and you can be SURE i asked for the pertussis shot before we left... all thanks to you. May 8, 2011 8:22 pm
  • Ashley: Those pictures are so beautiful. You're right, after it's all said and done, all you have are those pictures and the memories. You guys are absolutely amazing to help spread awareness. I hope your Mother's Day has been wonderful and so special. May 8, 2011 9:52 pm
  • Marti: Beautifully done story. *hugs* May 9, 2011 1:08 am
  • belinda olsen: The piece done being ksl was very moving and brought me to tears. Today I will schedule myself to have all of my vaccinations up to date! Thank you for sharing your story to help save others. from your heartache others will be made whole. May 9, 2011 3:36 am
  • NataLee Callahan: I got the link to your story off of twitter... watched it and am crying big elephant tears. I am 8 months pregnant with a horrible cough/cold right now. I have a dr. appt. this week and will definitely talk to him about getting vaccinated. Who knows, maybe your story is going to help keep our newborn son safe. May 9, 2011 3:52 am
  • dawn beirnes: this was a fantastic and loving video. I am soon going to have my second grandchild, so I have some questions (basically because I'm pretty clueless!). As far as I know, I have never had a pertussis vaccine. My children did...but they are now 30 (pregnant daughter), 27 and 21. I'm guessing that along with my daughter, my two sons should get the vaccine? My youngest son lives at home, so he will be around the new baby alot. My husband works in a hospital, so he will definitely get the vaccine, and I will as well. Are there any other things I need to know? My son-in-law should get it as well? He has 2 children, ages 16 and 12, so do they need to get it also? I hope I'm not asking too many questions. Thank you, baby Gavin. You are saving lives! May 9, 2011 4:18 am
  • NataLee Callahan: Me again. Okay, so I am thoroughly worried now. Including our baby who is due to arrive in the first of July, we have a 16 month old who has been struggling for months with Pertussis like symptoms. Drs. have told us everything from Croup (3x), to asthma, to a cold (it's been going on since January)... but we've been wondering why that causes him to throw up mucus all the time... and why he's not better yet. I am going to have him tested for pertussis now, but do you know when he will be fully vaccinated... so he doesn't get his newborn brother sick, even though the rest of us are going to get vaccinated against it? Thanks for sharing your story. I am convinced. May 9, 2011 4:29 am
  • Heidi: Thank you so much for sharing you story! As soon as I watched your clip on KSL last night I first broke into tears as I was so fortunate to be holding my 4 month old healthy baby boy. Then second, I found the link on KSL website & put it as my facebook status. I am so adamant about immunizations since working in Heathcare. Your story is so heart breaking but so powerful to get the message across. Gavin is definately making a differance! Thanks again for sharing your message! May 9, 2011 6:29 am
  • Maren: My heart breaks all over again for your sweet family, Natalie. Especially knowing now that you may have been the one who passed pertussis on to Gavin. But thank you for being so willing to share your experience, and in the process to save so many lives. We are expecting our first little boy in about a week - Because of you and Gavin, we have asked everyone to make sure they have their T-dap - mine will be done in the hospital. You are wonderful, Natalie and Richie!!! May 9, 2011 6:42 am
  • Dana Garner: I just wanted to say thank you! Your story last night on KSL was beautiful and had my entire family watching in tears! Your example was very inspiring to me and I now want to get invovled to help make people aware of pertussis..especially moms to be! My story is similar to yours in that we were living on Oahu when my son was born in August...a few weeks later my husband and I got a cough that we figured was just a cold/cough. When my son was 3 months old we moved to Utah for work and just a few weeks later my son started coughing! I, like you was not properly educated about pertussis and had not been revaccinated before he was born. My son was also misdiagnosed and continued coughing! Finially we were able to get the right diagnosis and get him some help and luckily our son is recovering! Watching your story last night made me feel that I am so blessed to still have my son and I need to be grateful to my Heavenly Father and share our story with others and help educate others the way you are. THANK YOU! May 9, 2011 6:51 am
  • Mandy: Thank you so much for raising awareness about this. I had a baby a week and a half ago. I too had a cold at the hospital. It still hasn't gone away. My baby started in with major congestion a few days ago. She is hardly sleeping because she can't breath through her nose very well. Is this how it started for Gavin? Or did it start with coughing? She has coughed a few times after eating and she has thrown up a lot of mucous. I'm kinda freaking out because I know I haven't been vaccinated since I was a child. I will definitely be getting it now and telling everyone I know about your story. Would you mind giving me a little more insight into what I should watch for? I'm so sorry for your loss and thanks again for speaking out! May 9, 2011 7:16 am
  • Melody: Great job! I liked that they/you talked about how nobody told you this was such a huge deal and so risky. I think that's an aspect of the story that more people need to focus on because so many people think that if it were really an issue they would already know about it because their doctor would have told them. Mine never told me and yours didn't tell you. Most don't for whatever reason. May 9, 2011 7:24 am
  • Elise: Natalie, I am usually not one to comment on blogs of people I don't know, but I really can't thank you enough for sharing Gavin's story. Although it is heartbreaking and I can't imagine what you have gone through, your words are always beautiful and uplifting. I just had a baby girl and had it not been for your story, I doubt I would have been very aware of pertussis and it's threats. My husband and I as well as our parents have been vaccinated. Thank you little Gavin for your beautiful life and for all those you have helped and the lives you have most definitely saved. May 9, 2011 7:30 am
  • Rebecca Jeppson: Oh Natalie! I found your blog a year or so ago-but today while watching your piece on KSL-holding my 5 week old baby boy....I feel so much for you and wanted to thank you for sharing your message. Our family lives in cache valley and with a pertussis outbreak I feel sick. Our family is all being vaccinated at 3:45 today. Thinking of you.... May 9, 2011 8:08 am
  • natalie: Dawn, I'm not a doctor, so any advice I give you should also be run by your physician. I would recommend anyone in your family over 12 years of age should get the Tdap booster shot. Thank you for being so aware and proactive! All my love! Natalie May 9, 2011 8:48 am
  • natalie: NataLee, If your 16 month old is up to date on all his vaccines, he should be fully protected against Pertussis as well. There is a small chance he still has it, however if he does, it's likely a much milder case because he's been vaccinated. If it was my family, I'd definitely have my 16 month old checked just for peace of mind. The pediatrician might not think it's worth it (the test is a little uncomfortable), but just insist. Good luck! Lots of love! Natalie May 9, 2011 8:51 am
  • natalie: Mandy, Gavin's symptoms started with a cough. Lots of babies experience congestion. Their nasal passages are so tiny that they tend to be easily constricted. It's unlikely that your baby has Pertussis, but if you have ANY reason to suspect that it could be Pertussis, I would definitely not hesitate to take the baby in just to be safe! May 9, 2011 8:59 am
  • Rachel Boatright DeVault: I have nothing but love for you and your family watching this. Gavin touched so many lives and continues to do so. XOXO May 9, 2011 9:04 am
  • Alisa: Natalie, your strength is inspring! I posted this on my blog to spread the word. May 9, 2011 9:12 am
  • stephanie w.: I want to say that I am so terribly sorry for your loss. I was in tears watching your story on the news, my son is vaccinated because I work in infection control at the u of u hospital. unfortunately all of my in-laws do not believe in vaccinations, I truly hope that sharing your story with them will help them make a better decision and get their vaccinations. you are so brave to tell your story, I don't know if I would be able to do anything if I lost my son. May 9, 2011 9:13 am
  • makana hansen: Just visiting. Saw your story on FB. My bro Robbies Limary knows you and I met you briefly at BYUH a few years ago. What a moving story. Thank you for sharing. Mind if I link you up on my blog? May 9, 2011 10:06 am
  • Amanda: It was touching... and beautiful. You did a really great job sharing your story. May 9, 2011 10:07 am
  • dawn beirnes: thanks alot Natalie. You and your family are opening so many people's eyes to this disease that would have never thought that much about it. Love to you and your family! May 9, 2011 10:30 am
  • Heather: As I watched last night when it aired, my heart broke all over again for you and your family. It is such a touching story and I just couldn't help but feel that what a mission this little boy is fulfilling. How amazing. I love your words at the very end. How true they are. May 9, 2011 10:45 am
  • Jolene Munford: I found your blog from a link I saw on a friends blog a few days after before your son past away. I had just entered the hospital at 28 weeks to be put on bed rest with twins, and I was so touched by your story. I thought of you after I had my babies and they asked me if I wanted the pertussis vaccine. I probably wouldn't have said yes if I hadn't just red your blog. I thought it was interesting that I had two other children, and I don't recall ever being asked if I would like that vaccine. I remembered you instantly when I saw this on KSL, not only did you help me make a dissension about the pertussis vaccine, but when things were scary you helped me to put my faith in perspective and helped remember to put my faith in our Father in Heaven May 9, 2011 11:31 am
  • Ashley: This is beautiful. Love you guys. May 9, 2011 11:39 am
  • Wendi: I still cry like it was yesterday...everytime. I think of your family so very often and always say loving prayers to God in your honor. xoxo May 9, 2011 12:34 pm
  • Erin: Thank you for telling this brave, heartfelt story. You have given a voice to those affected by pertussis. Thank you. May 9, 2011 4:17 pm
  • Beth Duckwitz: I'm not sure if you will remember me, but we danced together on Synergy. I came across this video on ksl.com and recognized you and then cried. I am so sorry for your loss. Lots of prayers and positive energy coming your way. May 9, 2011 5:13 pm
  • natalie: Beth! I totally remember you! What a beautiful family you have (I stalked your blog)! Lots of love!!! Natalie May 9, 2011 7:02 pm
  • Rachael Aitu: Thank you Natalie & Richie for sharing your story & all that you continue to do in your lives to inspire me! You are such and AMAZING family. May 9, 2011 10:11 pm
  • Annie Link: Go Mommy GO! Love, Gavin May 10, 2011 3:59 am
  • Silke: Thank you for letting us watch this. When I think about what this is doing to me I don't want to imagine what it does to you. I wasn't able to thank you and comment last night when I had watched it. You are so brave and doing so many good for the SoP organisation. I sure have learnt a lot and I am spreading the message. Regretfully, too many people are hesitant about vaccinations in general. But I am insistant :-) Silke May 10, 2011 6:01 am
  • sharalee prang: that was lovely. and enough with the red-eye talk, lady - you look amazing! May 10, 2011 9:59 am
  • Alysha Smith: You two are so amazing. I know that we are given trials to become stronger and increase our faith in the Lord. Your family will be in our nightly prayers. May 10, 2011 11:30 am
  • Jessica Rowe: I saw this on Sunday and once again I was so touched by all you have been through and how you have used this experience as an opportunity to help others. My sister is due to have her first next month and she is planning on getting her DTAP booster before leaving the hospital! much love, jessica May 11, 2011 8:38 am
  • Jennifer Isaacson: I bawled through this. You are so amazing. I am going to make sure we have our boosters when we have our baby in August. Thank you for this. All my love. xoxo May 13, 2011 12:33 pm
  • Rina: Thank you. You guys are amazingg! Baby Gavin was and is a reminder to us all that there is a Heavenly Father who loves us! Thank you. May 14, 2011 2:33 pm
  • uhsa: I have two kids, the youngest will turn 15 months in a week. The interview was heartbreaking, as much as you tried to normalize it with your amazing strength. Like any parent, it brought tears to my eyes to see baby Gavin in such situation. I have been a long time follower of your blog; and I know how close your brother was to you as well. I can see that you already have the strength to handle the situation - but I hope that God gives you the peace you guys so very much deserve. God Bless May 16, 2011 4:31 am
  • Jennifer Bowman: Natalie, you & your family are amazing! I was wondering if you know if getting the pertussis shot is safe while pregnant? I am due the end of June and originally thought I would get the shot at the hospital after having baby, before going home. Now I wonder if it would be better to do before he is here? Thank you for your insight! May 16, 2011 11:10 am
  • Emma Love: Again you and your family amaze me. God is good all the time. May 17, 2011 6:29 pm
  • Felicia Dube: Natalie, my name is Felicia Dube and we also speak out about Pertussis with The Sounds of Pertussis. I am watching your story for the first time and my heart breaks for you. I too feel that I am the one that gave our Carter Pertussis because I had a slight cough and cold when he was born. I would love to stay in contact with you and share stories about our beautiful baby boys ! My email is fam1130@yahoo.com. May 23, 2011 12:59 pm
  • Amy Matthews: I'm crying my eyes out reading your story. My next step is to cut this computer off and go play with my daughter. I can't help but think what if something happened to her, would checking my email have been so important? I think not. Thank you for sharing with such grace and faith. I pray God will give you overwhelming peace until you see your baby again some day. May 24, 2011 10:56 am
  • Natalie: Jennifer, I was at a conference on the Tdap last week in Phoenix and we were told tat the Tdap is safe while pregnant, HOWEVER if you have any concern whatsoever at all, just get the shot after you are discharged from the hospital. HOWEVER do require that all friends and family (spouse too) get the shot at least 1-2 weeks before the baby is born. It takes some time for the shot to become an effective protection to your infant. Way to be proactive! Congratulations on your baby!!! May 26, 2011 12:06 pm
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